As parents going through divorce, it is important to understand that any action you take can and will affect your child. Fortunately, this means you can also take actions to make the divorce process easier for them rather than harder. This includes the type of custody...
Child Custody
When will a judge modify child support in California?
Child custody agreements are a common component of divorce between spouses with minor children. The court recognizes that life changes, and as a result, custody agreements often require modification. In California, you can request and receive approval for a...
Can parallel parenting work for you?
Parallel parenting has existed as an option for parents going through divorce. It provides stability to children of divorce while also allowing parents to get the distance they may need from one another in the direct aftermath of a split. What is parallel parenting...
Addressing custody order violations
Ending your marriage could raise many concerns, but if you have kids, you likely have additional legal issues to think about during divorce and even years afterward. For example, some parents struggle with the inability to spend time with their child because their...
How can you deal with stress while co-parenting?
Dealing with an ex-spouse with different ideas and opinions on how to co-parent may become harder to deal with as time goes on. Arguments can get in the way of any helpful discussions. Learning how to reduce your stress levels while talking to your co-parent is one...
Yes, you can spend quality time with your kids after divorce
For California parents used to seeing their kids daily, divorce is a terrifying prospect. It often includes joint custody, which means the children spend part of their time with one parent, then the other. This changes the family structure, making it challenging for...
How do you gently break the news of divorce?
Divorce is a difficult time in your life, and it creates upheaval in the family no matter how amicable it is. Of course, your child will also end up negatively impacted by the split, which is why many parents often hesitate to tell them the news. Experts say this does...
What should I do about mental health concerns after the divorce?
Unlike a broken bone or a head cold, mental illness is not obvious, not passing and not mostly an inconvenience. When you believe someone you care about suffers from an emotional disorder, it is quite upsetting. When that person is your former spouse with whom your...
What should I include in my parallel parenting plan?
Co-parenting is the practice of rearing a child with a person you are no longer married to. It entails making decisions together to ensure the best interests of your child are a priority. For some former spouses, co-parenting is not a suitable option. This is often...
How can you avoid conflict while co-parenting?
While some conflicts may feel inevitable, there are ways to prevent any major fights or arguments with your co-parent. Learning how to communicate effectively and discuss sensitive topics, like childcare or educational trouble, is one way to do so. Look to the future...